tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post6045903663628365271..comments2023-12-31T08:35:24.549-08:00Comments on Living and Loving Every Minute of It!: The Unexpected!Corey~living and lovinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05719661119360487023noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-68724646481665535982007-12-17T10:35:00.000-08:002007-12-17T10:35:00.000-08:00I know this is going to be a big challenge. I hop...I know this is going to be a big challenge. I hope that you can both compromise and find a good place to meet in the middle. But, I bet it'll be quite bumpy to start. Lots of hugs for the days to come.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07389148318166547545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-70319239861043552532007-12-16T21:55:00.000-08:002007-12-16T21:55:00.000-08:00I don't want you to ever worry about venting to us...I don't want you to ever worry about venting to us. We are your blogging buddies, and we are here for you! That is one of the things I love most about blogging.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10528097998619795151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-6866921201064331162007-12-16T15:42:00.000-08:002007-12-16T15:42:00.000-08:00well that must have been a nice surprise to have h...well that must have been a nice surprise to have him home early like that! I can certainly understand having to adjust to a different schedule though since you've been used to a completely different one for so long!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02441176684416139172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-81197990197834073962007-12-14T14:28:00.000-08:002007-12-14T14:28:00.000-08:00Marriage seems to me to be one long string of adju...Marriage seems to me to be one long string of adjustments. There's so much joy in it, so many wonderful benefits - sometimes just in the successful adjustments themselves, because the feeling of accomplishing them together is indelibly hopeful and binding. But there's also pain and discomfort. And growth. I hope you continue to adjust and grow together and that this is the beginning of something fresh, new and wonderful for you as a couple. It always CAN be, you know?Megan Cobbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14008925325073263825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-66810182240841016222007-12-13T21:02:00.000-08:002007-12-13T21:02:00.000-08:00Yep! I totally understand. I hate my hubby's job a...Yep! I totally understand. I hate my hubby's job at times but I think it makes us better because we actually miss each other. I also enjoy the alone time.Keara @ Now I Know What Life Is All Abouthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07798860454957726700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-84081435522090472962007-12-13T20:25:00.000-08:002007-12-13T20:25:00.000-08:00I can imagine it must be difficult getting used to...I can imagine it must be difficult getting used to this new arrangement. I hope that you can both figure out how to adjust. I agree with jennwa. Surely he will get bored and find something to take up some of his time. I like my "me" time too.Mary Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14433058972885263558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-34251131864182224532007-12-13T20:05:00.000-08:002007-12-13T20:05:00.000-08:00I can't believe your hubby is one of those Deadlie...I can't believe your hubby is one of those Deadliest Catch guys!!!<BR/><BR/>Interesting...very interesting!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Bradley<BR/>The Egel NestThe Egel Nesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11475452898579351376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-79452533884891500922007-12-13T19:26:00.001-08:002007-12-13T19:26:00.001-08:00Ok, my husband works crazy hours and I am alone pr...Ok, my husband works crazy hours and I am alone pretty much every night. Because of that I get to call myself a writer. <BR/>I so get this post.Candacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00079944938192835478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-75300305768110690132007-12-13T19:26:00.000-08:002007-12-13T19:26:00.000-08:00Ok, my husband works crazy hours and I am alone pr...Ok, my husband works crazy hours and I am alone pretty much every night. Because of that I get to call myself a writer. <BR/>I so get this post.Candacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00079944938192835478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-33789228263788012512007-12-13T17:29:00.000-08:002007-12-13T17:29:00.000-08:00Oh, Corey! I swear to you that I could have writt...Oh, Corey! I swear to you that I could have written that exact same post (though my husband doesn't fish, and he is home at least a couple of nights a week - after I go to bed, and he is gone before I get up.) I too used to make everything about him - dinner, television, bedtime, EVERYTHING was what he wanted - and I didn't mind because he was gone enough for me to do what I wanted to do. He was home all day today, and I seriously wish I was drunk right now (and I don't remember the last time I had a drink!)<BR/><BR/>I wish I had some wise words or advice instead of 'been there, doing that'! I hope that everything works out!<BR/><BR/>(P.S. How does Sugar behave for your hubby when he is home? My two are AWFUL when husband is home - they are so used to him being gone, that they behave like he is company! Showing off, misbehaving, refusing naps, etc. As much as they drive me crazy sometimes, and as much as I complain for some help, on most days I would just prefer he weren't here! Good God - I can't believe I just admitted that. Anyway, just curious.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-61357632436587501632007-12-13T15:22:00.000-08:002007-12-13T15:22:00.000-08:00Oh sweetie.. I feel your pain. I am in the same ki...Oh sweetie.. I feel your pain. I am in the same kind of situation right now.. just not to your extreme. My hubby just started working a straight day shift. As you know, he has always worked at night. This left my evenings free to do whatever the heck I wanted. There are good and bad times. <BR/> Hang in there, you guys will eventually get it figured out. He will figure out what he is going to do with himself... eventually. ok.. this is a long comment. Hugs girlie!Autumnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08510723750496873429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-39523156514746471872007-12-13T15:08:00.000-08:002007-12-13T15:08:00.000-08:00Wow Corey. It puts a lot on your shoulders. I ho...Wow Corey. It puts a lot on your shoulders. I hope he works his stuff out and finds something that he enjoys. <BR/>And you are totally right to expect him to give and take. You're in a relationship, he's not your boss or anything.<BR/>Mr B needs reminding this at times, we probably all do, but make sure he doesn't wear you down.<BR/>Hugs.<BR/><BR/>P.S. I don't mean this to sound like I have a downer on your hubby. It's just I have an 'upper' on you.<BR/><BR/>Hmmmm. Upper? It makes less sense that way. But you know what I mean right? xJo Beaufoixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00957369658590225971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-77806113057123889702007-12-13T14:16:00.000-08:002007-12-13T14:16:00.000-08:00I think he will get bored and get a job. It will b...I think he will get bored and get a job. It will be fun at first but I think he will want to do something. Do you think ? <BR/>I feel your pain, my husband would drive me crazy and I would drive him even more crazy.<BR/>I hope it works out.jennwahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10721532064380545915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-49331679906575733972007-12-13T11:25:00.000-08:002007-12-13T11:25:00.000-08:00Hum...adjustments. That's what life is all about ...Hum...adjustments. That's what life is all about sometimes! Brrr...I'm sure he'll bring in the firewood we need for our stoves these days! And...could you stop by for the signs (2 are ready) when you have a minute? {smiles}Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10268189578633016712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-24387859189783018872007-12-13T11:13:00.000-08:002007-12-13T11:13:00.000-08:00ooooooooh. if you figure out how to make it *not* ...ooooooooh. if you figure out how to make it *not* all about him? share that with some of us less enlightened gals. i don't even know <BR/>a) where the remote is<BR/>b) the proper ends, beginnings, middles of shows, or whether the current snippet a commercial or not! <BR/>yeah. a lot of fun. . .<BR/><BR/>but gosh he makes a great (no, wait he doesn't cook) <BR/>well he fixes the (no, he doesn't do diy)<BR/>well he's really good at....(i can't remember...)<BR/><BR/>i'm not helping. <BR/><BR/>i'll stop now.<BR/><BR/>remember, you're not me. that is a good mantra "i am not holly."<BR/><BR/>so... fishing, eh? wonder if mine likes to fish. ...hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14839794772310980473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3817728686717244104.post-89719138599592733462007-12-13T11:03:00.000-08:002007-12-13T11:03:00.000-08:00It's interesting to learn more about your hubby! W...It's interesting to learn more about your hubby! We are the opposite in some ways - mine was always home, at least whenever the girls and I were in the evenings and on weekends. But for the past year, he's been working at a job where he works into the evenings and on weekends and we never know when he'll be home or not. It definitely has taken some adjustment!<BR/><BR/>I hope your hubby is able to work through whatever he needs to... :)Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03806252705199445407noreply@blogger.com